The database date format is determined by the Remote Prefs configuration in your database.
To change the database date format, access the app resources function as an admin user by clicking on the user name at the top of the page. Then under the Global Resources there should be a Remote Prefs, find the ui.formatting.scrdateformat property.
ui.formatting.scrdateformat=dd/MM/yyyy
This property controls the database date format and can be set to one of the following values:
MM dd yy
MM dd yyyy
MM-dd-yy
MM-dd-yyyy
MM.dd.yy
MM.dd.yyyy
MM/dd/yy
MM/dd/yyyy
dd MM yy
dd MM yyyy
dd MMM yyyy
dd-MM-yy
dd-MM-yyyy
dd-MMM-yyyy
dd.MM.yy
dd.MM.yyyy
dd.MMM.yyyy
dd/MM/yy
dd/MM/yyyy
dd/MMM/yyy
yyyy MM dd
yyyy-MM-dd
yyyy.MM.dd
yyyy/MM/dd
Therefore, you should be able to set the date format to yyyy-MM-dd to achieve the desired effect. Date pickers within the application will be based on your browser’s locale, but when uploading through the WorkBench you will need to conform to the yyyy-MM-dd format.
I have created a feature request to improve this by allowing the user to choose a formatter for exporting and queries: